Happy “women who have helped me” Day!

Today is Mother’s Day and though we are focused on those who actually gave birth to us and raised us, I wanted to take time to thank all the other women who helped me grow into who I am today.

I was blessed to be born to a woman who had 5 amazing sisters who became my 5 amazing Aunts. They were a group of strong Southern women who lived their lives with emphasis on humor, family and love for God. They encouraged me to remember where I came from and to honor that legacy with whatever I did with my life. The lessons I learned best where the ones I learned by watching their actions. I had Aunts who thrived as single parents and Aunts who found love in the Autumn of their lives. I have an Aunt who has never given up on learning (Dr. Aunt!) and another who has never given up on fighting for what is right (union power!). If I need advice or a hug or just time to laugh I know that I can depend on my Aunts.

All through my education I encountered amazing female teachers. They were examples in womanhood that were so different from the stay-at-home moms in my neighborhood. I learned so much from them and there were several that stood out over the years. Miss Redman in 8th grade who taught that girls could rock at math. Mrs. Bulmer who not only encouraged me to write when I was in her class in 2nd grade but continued to keep in touch with me as I grew up. (Yes, Mrs. Bulmer…I’m still writing!)

Being a Southern Baptist, I didn’t have female pastors at my church. But that didn’t stop God from placing women around me to influence me. I had amazing Sunday school teachers, VBS leaders and bible study groups. Even as an adult I have been blessed to have women around me who share their struggles and encourage me to become closer to God. Elaine has taught me so much about God and the woman He wants me to be, both through her actions and the bible studies we do together. Conversations with Cheryl over the years and the letters we wrote to each other have inspired me to follow God no matter what. Gina’s impact on my life and my relationship with God is immense and I’m constantly grateful for her.

On this Mother’s Day I want to thank all these women who shared their lives with me. You have all inspired me and taught me and made me into the woman I am today. Thank you for teaching me and for helping me. Thank you for being a part of my life. Happy Mother’s Day!